It may not even change by the time YOUR kids have kids, so for all those affected, at the moment you can find John Bradshaw’s ‘Homecoming’ series on youtube.
Of course, too many people aren’t even aware that they grew up in a disfunctional household (they’re the one’s which shout the loudest over and over and over about how lucky you are to have them as your parent.)
Know what I mean ? !!!!!!! Yikes.