Information about the all-too-common situation faced by children maintaining contact or being abused and threatened after divorce.  This “very conservative” organisation cannot overcome the bias “man bad … woman good” unthinkingly enforced by a female dominated industry – to the great cost of children and the fathers who love them.

Get the message out, as boys need to know that when they become men, should their wives feel like disposing of them for whatever misguided reasons, if so desired their children can be horrifically abused and they are worse-than-powerless to prevent it, or to remain a loving part of their life no matter how perfect they father and husband may have been.

Most adults have a friend who has lost their child to this industry through no (or very little) fault of his own –> “I hope it won’t happen to me” is not an adequate defence for the horrific and lifelong consequences.  INVESTIGATE THOROUGHLY.

Families need fathers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTS4aOJkTV4

and this next one brings new meaning to a ‘partner’ 🙂

Teaching Liam PHP, MySQL & javascript on a car web project – nice day. & here’s a good way to finish it off – thinking of you.

Quality of life can be drastically improved (or reduced) by the quality of people that surround us. Stefan has a fun conversation telling us what we should already know and which we sadly take for granted – some people be crazy – and puts a pretty good list in this one place of things to watch out for.  If you can’t change the people in your life now, this list will certainly help you to identify people for who they are and put up appropriate defensive walls, as well as helping you to establish some sort of “passport control/immigration” to hopefully prevent long-lasting encounters with other ’emotional vampires’. A serious topic, but presented in a fun and unforgettable way.

https://youtu.be/2jBEp3WGmcE?t=1716

Let me know how many people you’ve got in your life already, who tick these boxes 😉 I just loved the airline pilot bit, where you really hope these people know “which way is up” :))))

I came across this Guys channel months ago.  Because i don’t entirely agree, I moved on despite enjoying about 80% of whatever of the 1 or 2 videos of his I saw at the time, because maybe I found some of his views uncomfortable.  By the marvel of the right-hand column of Youtube’s suggested next video column, I came across him again recently, and found at this time some of the same feelings I had before, but somehow just able to enjoy the many concepts he debates more and his “tell it like [he thinks] it is” style.  Like me, you don’t need to agree with everything, but I DO think many will enjoy listening in on some of his debates, and at the time of posting, some 625,000 had enjoyed his content enough to hit the subscribe button.

https://youtu.be/8kozLlf2Fz8?t=3485

https://youtu.be/q4BU4OdnbS4?t=650

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4RHRmy8ZZo

I’ll leave you with one or 2 samples, and you can pick and choose to explore further or make a mental note to try to avoid any of his 2500+ video content in future, as you desire.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBXPLTPivGI

and this one about freedom of important discussions affecting society

Here’s a post about issues which affect large proportions of society.

This man relates his experience and memories of his childhood, which was affected by a lack of shared parenting policy by governments worldwide, who all bizarrely chant the propaganda of themselves being all-knowing of the ‘best interests of the child’.

Ryan’s videos expose 1/1,000,000th of the actual truth of such incompetent authorities, which in years to come society will judge with feelings of intense shame akin to the child labour workhouses in the days of Charles Dickens’  “Oliver Twist”.

Shame on us. 

This is not rocket science, which reveals that our failure to stop children and families going through this is incredibly abusive.

Waking up is a process, not an event (even if events like Ryan describes below, triggers that process)

And he describes some memories of his childhood

Years later, he is working through his feelings and loss with his dad…

…while ‘resetting’ and maintaining a ‘different’ relationship with his mum, based on whatever positivity he could salvage.

And here’s an interesting thought ….

Of course, posts like this may help you to realise this earlier, as Ryan says “something strikes a chord with you and you pay attention”.

Moving on, in today’s world of free hotmail for anyone with a phone or access to a computer, it is easier and easier for children under the control of an alienator to open up a support communication channel with their targeted parent

Some kids break free on their own

both boys and girls, alienated by both mums or dads, or step-parents. It’s totally gender-neutral – any gender can be the perpetrator & target

Here’s a useful post in the excellent “TEDtalks” series, which is a great resource on everything from psychology to rocket science 🙂